How to Enable Read Receipts Per Contact in Messages on iPhone or iPad

Jan 16, 2017 - 13 Comments

Set Messages Read Receipts per contact in iOS

Read Receipts offer a way for a message sender to know you have viewed their message, and vice versa. This can be a nice messaging feature in iOS and iPadOS, but it has obvious privacy implications and can become problematic in other situations. Fortunately the latest versions of iOS and ipadOS offer more granular controls and allow you to enable Read Receipts for individual contacts on a person by person basis, while still turning off all Read Receipts in Messages for iOS for everyone else. Or, conversely, you can enable Read Receipts for everyone, but turn the feature off for specific individual contacts too.

Per contact Read Receipts is an excellent feature for iPhone and iPad users, and it’s easy to enable and to customize to specific contacts.

You will need an iPhone or iPad running iOS 10 or later to have access to the individual Send Read Receipt feature.

How to Selectively Enable Read Receipts for Individual Contacts in Messages for iOS

This allows you to turn read receipts on or off on a per-contact and per-conversation basis. You can enable read receipts per contact on any iOS device, whether iPhone or iPad.

  1. Open the “Messages” app in iOS and go to an individual message conversation thread
  2. Tap the “(i)” button in the upper right corner of the message
  3. Send Read Receipts for specific contact in Messages for iOS

  4. Look for “Send Read Receipts” and toggle this to ON to set that specific contact to see read receipts from you, or toggle this to OFF to set that individual contact to not see read receipts from you
  5. Send Read Receipts for individual contacts in iOS Messages

  6. Repeat with other message threads and individual contacts as desired

Once you have enabled “Send Read Receipts” for an individual contact, they will see the little grey “Read” indicator after you have viewed their message, rather than the generic “Delivered” indicator under any messages sent to you.

My personal method of using this feature is to opt to disable all Read Receipts in Messages on iPhone but then selectively enable Read Receipts per contact for just a few important people, while leaving the feature off for everyone else. This can be an excellent tool for family, spouses, partners, or anyone particularly close to you that you want to reveal the “Read” receipt to when you have viewed their messages, while still retaining the privacy of having the feature off for everyone else.

Individual contact read receipts are really useful, so if you don’t like the general Read Receipts feature and would rather most people see the “Delivered” message but you want a select few people to see “Read” when you have seen their messages, try it out, it’s a great feature with many thoughtful and potentially important benefits.


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Posted by: Paul Horowitz in iPad, iPhone, Tips & Tricks


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  1. Al says:

    Question my friend and I
    Both iPhones
    Read receipts toggle was there Under this contact
    Then it was gone
    Now the toggle is there again

    Was I blocked and now unblocked?

  2. Sandra Utley says:

    If that toggle was once there and now gone does that mean you have been blocked? And then it comes back after a few days does that mean you are no longer blocked if you were blocked?

  3. Sheri says:

    I have a contact that does not even have
    The option ā€œ send read receiptā€ on it when I open the conversation in iMessage
    Of course that is the only 1 That i need to see if it is read or not
    Please advise
    I have searched and searched and cannot find a solution on how to. Find and Add this so I may enable this option

  4. SC says:

    Someone blocked me and now I don’t have the option to turn on read receipts for their contact. Is this related to them blocking me?

  5. Receipts says:

    Feature seems backwards, why do I have to enable on my phone a read receipt for the other person’s message. I want a read receipt for my messages I send them.

  6. Munyaradzi Mugomeza says:

    How about read receipts for ordinary text messages and not iMessages

    • Ina Carlo says:

      Read Receipts are for iMessage only. But sure, you can call and ask the person who got the SMS if they got your text message.

      WhatsApp and other messengers might have them too, it’s a digital thing.

  7. justine speer says:

    The Send Read Receipts is not an option for some contacts

    • Toast Siercey says:

      Send Read Receipts requires iMessage on the sender and receiver side. You can’t use iMessage features with an Android phone because currently Apple does not have an iMessage app for Android or Windows. But if you have an iPhone, Mac, iPad, iPod touch, all iMessage features work including read receipts, apps, stickers, etc.

  8. Tom says:

    This option not on my iPhone 6 with iOS 10.2

  9. Joshua margolin says:

    It doesn’t work, i am on 10.2 and the option doesn’t appear

    • Toast says:

      Read Receipts are a feature of iOS, it works. To say it doesn’t work is to say your car doesn’t work because you can’t find how to roll up the window. You need to have iMessage, without imessage or iOS 10 you won’t have it. Jeez people.

  10. Mary Lou Deneau says:

    Please make your messages printable. Thank you so much for this training.

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